THE SHORT ANSWER TO THAT QUESTION IS WHENEVER YOU ARE READY TO SLEEP WITH THAT PERSON.
It could be the first date, it could be 5 dates in or 2 months. Heck it could even be one hour into knowing each other. There is no right or wrong its just when it’s right for you.
Some of us have self imposed rules that we won’t sleep with the person until the 5th or 10th date. Some will go with their gut or how they feel and sleep with the person on the first date.
If the chemistry is there and it’s something you want to do then go for it. There’s no wrong in it just like there’s no wrong in waiting a little. If you really like someone and they really like you they won’t care that they have to wait.
WAITING MEANS YOU’LL BE A BIT MORE COMFORTABLE WITH EACH OTHER ESPECIALLY IF YOU REALLY LIKE THE PERSON.
Waiting until you are more comfortable with the person and until you are more connected can lead to a better sexual experience. Everyone needs time to become comfortable with a new partner. The first time with each other will always be a little awkward because you’re still learning about each others bodies. What each person’s likes and dislikes are.
Those stages can be fun learning how you fit together & what you want from each other. Then once you get to that point of knowing each other the sex can become incredible.. It takes practice. You can get better over time with each other. The more comfortable you are with each other the better it will be. Trust me..
ON THE FLIP SIDE IF YOU FIND THE PERSON ATTRACTIVE, WANT TO SLEEP WITH THEM AND DON’T SEE IT GOING ANY FURTHER THAN SEX THEN GET NAKED.
Now more often with the big wide online dating world we’re skipping the first date and going straight to the sex. With the opening question on tinder being “what are you here for?” or more straight to the point with a dick pic. We end up getting off quick with one another and moving onto the next.
Also saying you want to sleep with someone just to get them to stay is never going to make them stay. It doesn’t matter if you wait 5 dates or one date as horrible as this sounds they are still going to leave after they’ve got what they want. Theres nothing saying sex early in a relationship can’t lead to something more serious, but when that persons intentions are just to sleep with you. Making them wait isn’t going to change how they feel. Which is why you have to know yourself how having sex with this person is going to affect you.
BEFORE HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE NEW THINK ABOUT HOW THE SEX CAN EFFECT YOU MENTALLY TOO.
Does sleeping with someone new leave you feeling happy and content? or do you leave feeling a little disappointed? If it’s the former then that’s great you’re getting your pleasure and feeling good about it afterwards. If its the latter and you’re left feeling a little disappointed either they’re not doing a good enough job or the next time wait until you feel more comfortable with the person before diving under the sheets.
Checking your emotions too if you find it hard to take the feelings out of sex waiting can be a good thing. Making sure you are your partner are on the same page is key. Whether it is just sex between two consenting adults or if you are both open to something a little more serious can determine how you feel after sex.
So maybe you wait a little or maybe you jump right in, there is no right or wrong just what feels right for you. With one person it may be 2 dates but with the next it may be 2 months. Heck it could even be a year into the relationship or maybe you want to wait until marriage. Each relationship with be different, each connection you have with someone will be different. So knowing when the right time to have sex with someone new is entirely up to you.